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Here I am writing about new found happiness (by the way, Ha-penis = happiness) when my best friend in the world is going through some pretty rough times. It's been on my mind but it's made me feel like a fool that I haven't done more about it. Sorry buddy. One of the definite downfalls of being so far from home is that you can't be there like you should for the ones you love.
The year before I left for Thailand was a fairly dark time for me. Between a head injury that took about two week's memory from me, a break up, feeling stuck in life, etc. - I had a friend tell me that it was maybe time I sought some help. I found a therapist and began attending regularly. It was such a help to talk to someone you don't know at all. Even if they didn't speak, the unbiased nature of their company was comforting. I only tell this in hopes that someone may seek the same if they're sitting on the fence. It was hands down the best thing I've done for myself.
You, yes you, please be proactive and take care of yourself first and foremost. However, this is a two-way street. The holidays are coming to a close and this is never a relaxed time for any of us, as much as we want it to be. I've seen many posts in my feed alluding to this recently. If you see someone you think may be hurting a bit, don't ask them what's wrong or how you can help. Sorry, but there's a 90% chance that won't do much for them even if your heart is in the right place. Instead go for a cup of coffee and simply listen. Even if they don't talk about a single thing that's bothering them your company and the fact you cared and made time for them is a better gift than any you wrapped this year.
You're on my mind friend, and in my thoughts and prayers. And even if prayer doesn't mean much to you, like Phil said - you put good will out there and somehow it gets where it's supposed to go. It will get there. (paraphrased of course, you can't duplicate wisdom that real.)
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